Sunday, October 7, 2007

Coley's Joy.

It's been about a month since I had the opportunity to post on this, so there's a lot of catch you up on:



-Cole has teeth! He now has four: the front two on both the top and bottom. The last one (the front bottom-left) just showed through yesterday. He continues to eat well, without question - though he sure does prefer those sweet potato dishes! :)


-We had a very gracious and fun visit with Matt, Ashley and the newest Cornelius: Teya Corbin. :) Both kids showed their personality quite well in that circumstance: Teya is definitely more docile, reserved and contemplative; Cole is an adventurous, curious, helpful show-off. (We even joked about future dating possibilities.)


-Cole is now walking, mostly while balancing himself by leaning upon things like tabletops and couch pillows. He took his first step with me unaided last Saturday (the 29th of September). Yesterday he took one unaided step towards me early in the visit* and then a little later he took two very large steps towards me before catching my shirt. :)


-He still loves picking out books from his bookcase. (Yes, I have that many kids' books: he gets the two whole lower shelves of my wider bookcase.) He also is still quite the vocal child, and his favorite phrase seems to be some variant of "dada", which also seems to be what he says most when he is excited and/or happy.


- He is also quite musical. He's figured out a number of toys and "mechanical" things (like the clasp of my metal watch), and he spends most of his time with that which plays music for him, like a musicbox his grandpa bought for him and a drum (although he had regularly been drumming on everything). So much fun!


-We still only see each other Wednesdays and Saturdays, during the day. There's been a number of things that have delayed this process, most of them entirely unfounded or unprofessional, but hopefully that will change this Wednesday and I can finally have him spend a night in his own crib here. But, who knows anymore. Nevertheless, I try to remain as optimistic and rational as is possible, and Cole and I never have a visit that's anything but full of fun and love. :)

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Climbing.

Once again: Babe Time is the best time!



Cole can now crawl, climb, wrestle, eat solids, learn to drink from a sippy cup, chase cats, speak babble and a few very distinct words, and walk - aided by a platform to hold onto, of course!


Old King Cole: conquerer of Mt. Dad! :)

Friday, August 10, 2007

Today.

Today was full of restoring myself from yesterday's debacle. Today was filled with sleeping in, packing all my books (what a task!), and calling back potential employers, and my dad about a future visit of his down here for Cole. Today was spent looking for a navy blue kercheif for my favorite new article of clothing, my modern, three-button khaki sport coat. To no avail. Today was spent finally checking out Vroman's bookstore once more before leaving town for Monrovia, deciding to try coming there with Cole one day for their Saturday kids' books reading, and Sunday evening for live jazz. Today was spent in Borders stocking up rewards and discounts galore as I purchased copies of four of the books on my to-read list on goodreads.com, now my favorite website (which you could check out vicariously through a link if this place allowed html tag). Today was spent writing, lots of writing. Today was. I am spent.

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Good News, Bad News

Bad News: Court got continued AGAIN, this time for another three weeks until the fourth of September, his nine-month birthday.

Good News: Mom confided in me during dinner that she never liked Lexi, and that she herself is a Christian, just not a strict one. Good thing, she could end up as fake as my ex-wife! :)

Monday, August 6, 2007

Confidences.

"Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse does not come to rest."

Ample advice at a time of vulnerable insecurity provides great comfort. Both facets are called "confidences".

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Eight Months of Love!

Happy 8-month birthday my crawling, chasing cats, using tables to walk, laughing, talking, reading, really-sleepy-today baby! I love you!


Thursday, August 2, 2007

Foolery.

Patronizing manipulation is worse than firey severance. Let me pursue what is mine in peace. Why can't they let me care for my son?